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Fertility and cancer

Cancer and its treatment may affect a person’s ability to conceive a child or maintain a pregnancy (fertility). 

Whether or not you want to become a parent or add to your family, you may be wondering how cancer will affect your fertility. We hope this information will help you understand how you may try to keep (preserve) your fertility before and during treatment, and your options after cancer treatment.

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What are reproduction and fertility?

Reproduction is the way we produce babies. 

Knowing how your body works may help you understand how fertility problems happen. 

How reproduction works

The female and male reproductive systems work together to make a baby. The process involves combining an egg (ovum) from a female and a sperm from a male. This is called fertilisation. 

Role of hormones – Hormones are substances produced naturally in the body. Hormones control many body functions, including how you grow, develop and reproduce. Oestrogen and progesterone, often called female sex hormones, are produced in the ovaries. These hormones control the growth and release of eggs (ova), and the timing of menstruation (periods). 

Androgens are often called male sex hormones. The major androgen is testosterone, which is produced mainly in the testicles and helps the body make sperm. Most people produce some testosterone, although generally men make more. 

Ovulation – Each month, from puberty (sexual maturation) to menopause (when periods stop), one of the ovaries releases an egg. This is called ovulation. 

Pregnancy – The egg travels from the ovary into the fallopian tube. Here it can be fertilised by a sperm. Once the egg is fertilised, it implants itself into the lining of the uterus and grows into a baby. After the egg is fertilised by the sperm, it’s called an embryo. 

Menopause – As females get older, hormone levels fall to a level where the ovaries stop releasing eggs and periods stop. This is known as menopause. This is the natural end of the female reproductive years and it usually happens between the ages of 45 and 55. 

Factors that affect fertility

Some of the common factors that affect fertility include: 

  • age – fertility starts to naturally decrease with age
  • weight – being very underweight or overweight 
  • smoking – both active and second-hand smoking can harm reproductive health 
  • alcohol – drinking too much alcohol may make it harder to conceive 
  • medicines – some medicines and cancer treatments affect fertility 
  • other health concerns – endometriosis, fibroids, pelvic disease, certain hormonal conditions, some genetic conditions or cancer.

Transgender, non-binary or intersex?

This information has been developed based on evidence in people born female or male. 

If you are non-binary or trans or a person with an intersex variation, this information may still be relevant to you if you have ovaries, a cervix and a uterus, or testicles and a penis. 

Our booklet 'LGBTQI+ People and Cancer' includes a chapter on fertility. Call 13 11 20 to ask for a copy. 

For fertility information specific to your situation, talk to your health care team.

ovaries

  • 2 small, walnut-shaped organs in the lower part of the abdomen (belly)
  • contain follicles that hold immature eggs (ova), which eventually become mature eggs
  • make hormones including oestrogen and progesterone

fallopian tubes

  • 2 long, thin tubes that extend from the uterus and open near the ovaries
  • carry sperm to the eggs, and eggs from the ovaries to the uterus

uterus (womb)

  • a hollow muscular organ where a fertilised egg (ovum) is nourished to develop into a baby
  • the inner lining of the uterus is known as the endometrium; each month if an egg is not fertilised, some of the lining is shed and flows out of the body (menstruation or monthly period)
  • joined to the vagina by the cervix

cervix (neck of the uterus)

  • the lower, cylinder-shaped entrance to the uterus
  • produces moisture to lubricate the vagina
  • holds a developing baby in the uterus during pregnancy and widens during childbirth

Vagina (birth canal)

  • a muscular tube or canal that extends from the opening of the uterus (the cervix) to the vulva
  • the passageway through which menstrual blood flows out of the body, penetrative sex (such as intercourse) occurs and a baby is born

vulva

  • the external sex organs; includes the labia

Male sex organs and reproduction

testicles (testes)

  • 2 small, egg-shaped glands
  • make and store sperm
  • also make the hormone testosterone

scrotum

  • the loose pouch of skin at the base of the penis that holds the testicles

epididymis

  • a tightly coiled tube attached to the outer surface of each testicle
  • sperm travel from the testicles through the epididymis to the spermatic cord

spermatic cord and vas deferens

  • tube running from each testicle to the penis
  • contains blood vessels, nerves and lymph vessels
  • carries sperm towards the penis

seminal vesicles

  • a pair of glands that lie close to the prostate
  • produce fluids that make up part of semen

prostate

  • a small gland about the size of a walnut
  • produces fluids that form part of semen
  • located near the nerves, blood vessels and muscles that control bladder function and erections

penis

  • the main external sex organ
  • urine and semen pass out of the body through the penis
  • semen is made up of sperm and other fluids, and is ejaculated from the penis

Key questions

Answers to some key questions about fertility after a cancer diagnosis are below.

What is infertility?

Infertility is defined as a condition where a person or couple is unable to conceive. This may result from female or male factors, or a combination of both, or the reasons may be unknown. For females under 35, the term usually refers to trying unsuccessfully to conceive for 12 months. If a female is 35 or older, the term is used after 6 months of trying.

Could cancer affect my fertility?

Cancer and its treatment may affect your fertility, depending on the type of cancer and treatment you have. Chemotherapy and radiation therapy can damage reproductive organs involved in creating or carrying an unborn baby, such as the ovaries, cervix, uterus or testicles. Sometimes these organs are damaged or removed during surgery, which can harm or destroy eggs or sperm, or make it difficult to carry a pregnancy to term. 

Fertility problems after treatment may only last months to years or they may be permanent.

How does age affect fertility?

Age is one of the most important factors in how cancer treatment affects fertility. 

Female age and fertility – Females are born with all the eggs they will have in their lifetime. From the age of 30, fertility starts to decline and this decline speeds up after 35. It then becomes harder to conceive and the risk of chromosomal conditions (e.g. Down syndrome) increases. 

From your early 40s, although you may still have regular periods, it is usually difficult to conceive a child because of lower egg quality. After menopause, it won’t be possible to conceive a child naturally. 

How cancer treatments affect fertility will vary. Before and after puberty, the effect of chemotherapy and radiation therapy on fertility depends on the drugs used or the dose. 

Before puberty, high doses of drugs or radiation to the pelvis may cause enough damage to the ovaries that both puberty and future fertility are affected. After puberty, treatment to the ovaries can cause periods to stop permanently. Even if periods return after treatment, some women may experience medically induced menopause. 

Male age and fertility – The quality and quantity of sperm decreases with age. This means it may take longer for an older man to conceive with his partner. Before and after puberty, some chemotherapy and radiation therapy may affect sperm production and may cause infertility. The impact of radiation will depend on the dose and what organs are affected by the radiation.

What is fertility preservation?

This describes the procedures that can help preserve your fertility, for example, freezing eggs, embryos or sperm, or using injections that cause a temporary state of menopause to preserve your ovaries. Other procedures include freezing ovarian or testicular tissue. If a cancer treatment may affect your fertility, fertility preservation procedures are usually done before treatment begins. Your fertility may also be protected during treatment – for example, with ovarian transposition or radiation shielding.

When can I try to get pregnant after treatment?

Timing of pregnancy and when to use contraception is an important discussion to have with your cancer specialist. Some cancer specialists advise waiting between 6 months and 2 years after treatment ends. This may be to allow your sperm or eggs to recover, and to ensure you remain in good health. 

If you have a hormone-sensitive cancer and are taking anti-oestrogen drugs, you will need to wait for 9 months after you finish taking these drugs before getting pregnant.

Will pregnancy cause the cancer to come back?

Research shows that for most types of cancers, pregnancy does not increase the chances of cancer coming back. Research is continuing, so discuss this issue with your specialist. Studies to date suggest that survival rates for people who have children after cancer are no different from people who don’t have children after treatment.

Should I have a child after I’ve had cancer?

This is a very personal decision. Many people who have had cancer do go on to have children. Others decide not to have children. Having cancer may change the way you feel about having a child. Having a family is very important to many cancer survivors and with advice from specialists, this can be safe and successful. 

If you have a partner, discuss your family plans with each other and with your treatment team. Worrying about cancer coming back may make it hard for you to make plans, including having a child. Fertility clinics often have counsellors who can talk through your situation. Ask to be referred to a counsellor who has experience in both cancer and fertility.

Can cancer be passed on to my children?

Studies show that if one or both parents have a history of cancer, their child has the same risk of getting cancer as anyone else. About 5% of some cancers are caused by an inherited gene fault from either parent. This is known as familial cancer. If you inherit a gene fault from either of your parents, this will increase the risk of you developing cancer. You may also pass on this gene fault to your children. 

If your diagnosis is linked to an inherited gene fault, you may consider having preimplantation genetic testing (PGT) as part of in-vitro fertilisation (IVF). This involves testing embryos for genetic conditions. Only unaffected embryos are implanted into the uterus. This reduces the chance of the gene being passed on to the child. A fertility clinic can provide more information.

Will my doctor talk to me about fertility?

Fertility is an important part of health for everyone. But your doctor may not discuss whether you want children in the future if they make assumptions based on your age, sexual orientation, gender, or whether you have children or not, or if they are focused on starting treatment immediately. If fertility matters to you, let your health professional know before treatment begins. 

Ask your cancer specialist about the chances of your treatment causing fertility problems and what you can do now if you want to have a child later (e.g. freezing eggs, or ovarian, sperm or testicular tissue). Ask to be referred to a fertility clinic or oncofertility specialist, or if it is possible to plan treatment in ways that protect or limit damage to reproductive organs to reduce the chances of infertility after treatment. 

Tell the fertility clinic or oncofertility specialist that you are having treatment for cancer so that they can arrange an appointment for you as soon as possible. Your cancer care team may also be able to help you get an appointment quickly. The fertility clinic can give you information about: 

  • how your age and cancer treatment might affect fertility 
  • the options available to you 
  • how likely it is that each option will lead to pregnancy 
  • costs of the different options 
  • using donor eggs or sperm in the future 
  • any counselling you might need. 

If you have a partner, try to attend appointments together and include them in the decision-making process. You may also wish to bring a family member or friend for support.

Who else can I talk to?

There are several people who can help with fertility concerns.

Health professionals you may see

cancer specialist – might be a medical oncologist, radiation oncologist, gynaecological oncologist, surgeon or haematologist

fertility specialist – diagnoses, treats and manages infertility and reproductive hormonal disorders; may be an obstetrician, reproductive endocrinologist or urologist

oncofertility specialist – specialises in fertility care of adults or children with cancer

cancer care coordinator - a nurse specialist who coordinates your care throughout diagnosis and treatment and works closely with other members of your health care team

fertility counsellor – provides support and advice for people with fertility concerns

genetic counsellor – provides advice for people with a strong family history of cancer or a genetic condition linked to cancer

gynaecological oncologist – diagnoses and treats cancers of the female reproductive system (e.g. ovarian, cervical)

urologist/andrologist – diagnoses and treats diseases of the urinary system and the male reproductive system

What are the main costs of fertility treatment?

Fertility preservation can be expensive, and this may influence your decision-making. The cost of fertility treatment varies – you may be able to have treatment at a fertility unit in a public hospital or a private clinic. 

Ask your fertility specialist for a written estimate of their fees and any Medicare rebates. Ask your private health fund (if you belong to one) what costs they will cover and what you’ll have to pay. 

Depending on the treatment you have, costs may include: 

  • fertility specialist appointments – ask if they offer a discount for people diagnosed with cancer 
  • medicines and blood tests
  • fees for procedures (e.g. the different steps in the IVF cycle for egg or sperm collection, preimplantation genetic testing, and implantation of embryos after treatment) 
  • day surgery, operating theatre and anaesthetist fees 
  • egg, sperm and embryo storage (cryopreservation) – ask your clinic about up-front payments, instalment payments and ongoing fees. 

If you need in-vitro fertilisation (IVF) to have a baby in the future (e.g. by using your frozen sperm, eggs or embryos), private fertility clinics will usually charge their standard fees. 

▶ See our 'Cancer and Your Finances' booklet or call 13 11 20.

Medicare will cover the cost to see a specialist only if you have a referral. The referral should list both you and your partner so you can claim the maximum benefit.

What is in-vitro fertilisation (IVF)?

IVF is a method for achieving a pregnancy after fertility issues, but it will only be an option for some people after cancer. IVF is when an egg is fertilised with sperm in a laboratory and later implanted into a female body. Eggs, sperm or embryos frozen before cancer treatment can be used. One full cycle of IVF takes about 2–3 weeks.

  1. Ovarian stimulation - Hormone injections daily for 10–14 days help stimulate your body to produce more eggs.
  2. Egg collection - Mature egg/s are collected from the follicle using a needle guided by ultrasound.
  3. Egg and sperm combined - The eggs are combined with sperm from a partner or donor, or frozen (cryopreservation) for later use.
  4. Embryo freezing - Fertilised eggs may divide and form embryos. Embryos can also be frozen (cryopreservation) for later use.
  5. Embryo transfer - A syringe and tube are used to implant embryos into your body (or a surrogate). This will usually happen after cancer treatment.

Making decisions about fertility

After a cancer diagnosis, you may be asked to make fertility decisions before you’ve given much thought to whether you want to have a child in the future. Even if you think, “But I don’t want kids” or “My family is complete”, you may be encouraged to consider fertility options to keep your choices open for the future. These decisions are personal, and you need to feel comfortable with your choices.

Learn more about the options – Generally, people make decisions they are comfortable with – and have fewer regrets later – if they gather information and think about the possible outcomes. Ask your fertility specialist to explain each fertility option, including risks, benefits, side effects, costs and success rates.

Talk it over – Discuss the options with people close to you (such as your partner, a friend or family member). Ask your cancer specialist whether you should see a fertility specialist or oncofertility specialist. You can also get a referral from your general practitioner (GP). As well as explaining your fertility options, these specialists can help with contraception and hormone management to prevent ovulation during cancer treatment.

Expect to experience doubts - It’s common to feel unsure when making tough decisions. Keeping a journal or blog about your experience may help you come to a decision and reflect on your feelings.

Breast Cancer Network Australia has a resource called 'Fertility-related Choices' to help women with breast cancer make fertility-related decisions.

What if I’m already pregnant?

Being diagnosed with cancer during pregnancy is uncommon – it is estimated that 1 in every 1000 pregnant females are diagnosed with cancer. Call Cancer Council 13 11 20 for more information about pregnancy and cancer. 

Treatment during pregnancy – This may be possible, but you need to discuss the potential risks and benefits to you and the baby with your oncologist before treatment begins. In some cases, treatment can be delayed until after the baby’s birth. For some cancers, chemotherapy may be safely used after the first trimester (12 weeks), usually with a break of a few weeks before the birth. 

Termination – Some people diagnosed with cancer in the early weeks of pregnancy decide to terminate the pregnancy so they can start treatment immediately. 

Change in birth plan – If you are diagnosed later in the pregnancy, you may be able to have the baby before the due date. 

Breastfeeding – You will be advised not to breastfeed while having chemotherapy, targeted therapy, or immunotherapy as drugs can be passed to the baby through the breastmilk. If you are having radiation therapy, talk with your doctor about whether it is safe to continue breastfeeding during treatment.

“My oncologist wanted to start treatment as soon as possible, so my obstetrician and oncologist decided on a day to deliver my son. He was delivered safely at 32 weeks.” LILY

Treatment, side effects and fertility

This section provides an overview of how cancer treatments may affect fertility. 

The most common treatments for cancer are chemotherapy, radiation therapy, surgery and hormone therapy. Other treatments include immunotherapy and targeted therapy. Learning that cancer treatment may affect your fertility can be distressing. If you need support at this time, call Cancer Council 13 11 20.

Chemotherapy

Chemotherapy uses drugs to kill or slow the growth of cancer cells. These drugs travel throughout the body and are designed to affect fast-growing cells such as cancer cells. This means chemotherapy can also damage other cells that grow quickly, including those in the ovaries and testicles. The risk of infertility depends on the type of drugs used, the dose and your age.

Effect on ovaries – Some chemotherapy drugs can stop the ovaries from working properly and releasing eggs (ovulation). If chemotherapy destroys or damages eggs, your body won’t be able to replace them.

Chemotherapy drugs can cause your periods to become irregular or even stop for a while. Depending on your age, number of eggs and the amount of chemotherapy you’ve had, your periods may return within a year of finishing treatment. If your periods do not return, the ovaries may have stopped working permanently, causing premature or medically induced menopause.

Effect on testicles – The effects of chemotherapy on the sperm you make may be temporary or permanent if the cells in the testicles are too damaged to produce healthy, mature sperm.

Effect on your heart and lungs – Some chemotherapy drugs can affect your heart and lungs. If this causes long-term damage, it may make a future pregnancy and birth more difficult. Your specialist will talk to you about what precautions to take during pregnancy. 

▶ For more information, see our 'Understanding Heart Health and Cancer' fact sheet.

If you have both chemotherapy and radiation therapy (chemoradiation) to treat cancer, the risk of permanent infertility is higher.

Download our booklet ‘Understanding Chemotherapy’

Radiation therapy

Radiation therapy (also called radiotherapy) uses a controlled dose of radiation to kill cancer cells or damage them so they cannot grow, multiply or spread. It can be delivered from outside the body (external beam radiation therapy) using a machine called a linear accelerator, or inside the body (usually brachytherapy). The risk of infertility will vary depending on the area treated, the dose of radiation and how many treatments you have. 

Radiation therapy to the pelvic area or the reproductive organs commonly causes permanent infertility. It may be used for cancer of the bladder, bowel, cervix, ovary, prostate, rectum, anus, uterus, vagina or vulva. Your treatment team may try to preserve your fertility by shielding your organs using a screen during radiation treatment, but sometimes this is not possible.

Radiation therapy to the ovaries – This can stop the ovaries producing hormones and eggs permanently. If you need radiation therapy near the ovaries, one or both may be surgically moved higher in the abdomen and out of the field of radiation. This is called ovarian transposition (oophoropexy).

Radiation therapy to the cervix or uterus – This can stop the ovaries producing hormones, and cause permanent menopause. Radiation therapy can also permanently damage the uterus, which means you cannot carry a baby.

Radiation therapy to the testicles – This can lower the number of sperm and affect the sperm’s ability to work normally.

Radiation therapy to the prostate – This may cause erectile dysfunction, which means not being able to get and keep an erection firm enough for penetrative sex.

Radiation therapy to the brain – This may damage the pituitary gland, which releases hormones that control reproduction. It tells the ovaries to release an egg each month and the testicles to make sperm.

Radiation therapy to the whole body – This is known as total body irradiation (TBI), and may be given before a stem or bone marrow cell transplant to treat blood cancers. Complications such as miscarriage, premature birth and low birth weight are more common with pregnancies after TBI.

If you have both chemotherapy and radiation therapy (chemoradiation) to treat cancer, the risk of permanent infertility is higher.

Download our booklet ‘Understanding Radiation Therapy’

Surgery

Surgery that removes part or all of the reproductive organs to treat cancer can cause infertility.

Removal of one or both ovaries (oophorectomy) – If one ovary is removed, the other ovary should continue to release eggs and produce hormones. If you still have a uterus, you may still have periods and be able to become pregnant. If both ovaries are removed (bilateral oophorectomy), you will experience immediate medically induced menopause. You will no longer have periods or be able to become pregnant naturally.

Removal of the uterus and cervix (hysterectomy) – This type of surgery may be used to treat cancer of the cervix, ovary, uterus and, sometimes, cancer of the vagina. After a hysterectomy, there is nowhere for a baby to develop and your periods will stop. Sometimes the ovaries will also be removed. If your ovaries are left in place and continue to work, you may be able to fertilise your eggs through IVF and use a surrogate to carry the pregnancy.

Removal of the testicles (orchidectomy) – Treatment for testicular cancer usually involves removing one testicle. If you have had one testicle removed, you can go on to have children naturally. However, men with testicular cancer have lower fertility rates than the general population. The urologist may advise you to store sperm at a sperm banking facility before the surgery, just in case you have fertility problems in the future.

In some rare cases, both testicles are removed (bilateral orchidectomy). This causes permanent infertility because you will no longer produce sperm. You will still be able to get an erection.

Removal of the prostate (prostatectomy) – Surgery for prostate cancer usually involves removing the prostate and seminal vesicles, and sealing the tubes from the testicles (vas deferens). This causes permanent infertility because you will not be able to ejaculate semen during orgasm. This is known as a dry orgasm.

Removal of the penis (penectomy) – Part or all of the penis may be removed to treat cancer of the penis. The part of the penis that remains may still get erect with arousal and may be long enough for penetration. It is sometimes possible to have a penis reconstructed after surgery, but this is still considered experimental and would require another major operation.

Removal of the bladder or prostate – This may damage the nerves used for getting and keeping an erection (called erectile dysfunction or impotence). Erectile dysfunction may last for a short time or be permanent. It may be possible for the surgeon to use a nerve-sparing technique to protect the nerves that control erections. This works best for younger men who had strong erections before the surgery. However, problems with erections are common even with nerve-sparing surgery.

Download our booklet ‘Understanding Surgery’

Hormone therapy

Hormones that are naturally produced in the body can cause some cancers to grow. The aim of hormone therapy (also called endocrine therapy or androgen deprivation therapy, ADT) is to slow down the growth of these cancers by lowering the amount of hormones the tumour cells are exposed to.

Hormone therapy for breast cancer If a cancer is growing in response to the hormones oestrogen or progesterone, the cancer cells will have hormone receptors. These are proteins found on the surface of the cancer cell. Cancer cells with oestrogen or progesterone hormone receptors on them are called hormone receptor positive or hormone-sensitive cancers. They are more likely to respond to hormone therapy. 

Anti-oestrogen drugs (such as tamoxifen) are used to reduce the risk of oestrogen-sensitive breast cancers coming back. Many anti-oestrogen drugs are taken for 5–10 years. Pregnancy should be avoided while taking the drugs and for 9 months afterwards, as there is a risk the drugs could harm an unborn child. These drugs can cause menopause symptoms, although they don’t bring on menopause. 

Although hormone treatments for breast cancer are used for many years, ask your doctor if it is possible to take a break from the drugs to try for a baby. Anti-oestrogen drugs do not damage the ovaries or eggs. Some anti-oestrogen drugs are of benefit during fertility treatment and keep your oestrogen levels low. 

Males with breast cancer who are taking the drug tamoxifen may experience increased sperm production.

Hormone therapy for cancer of the uterus Some cancers of the uterus grow in response to oestrogen. Hormone therapy may be given if the cancer has spread or if the cancer has come back, particularly if it is a low-grade cancer.

Hormone therapy for prostate cancer The hormone testosterone helps prostate cancer to grow. Hormone therapy may reduce how much testosterone your body makes and help slow the growth of the cancer or even shrink the cancer, but it may also cause infertility.

Other treatments

Stem cell transplant – For a small number of people with blood cancers, high-dose chemotherapy and, sometimes, a type of radiation therapy known as total body irradiation are given before a stem cell transplant to kill the cancer cells in the body. The risk of permanent infertility after these treatments is high.

Immunotherapy and targeted therapy The effects of these newer drug therapies on fertility and pregnancy are unknown, but are likely to vary depending on the drug you take. Talk to your cancer and fertility specialists about how these treatments may affect your fertility.

Download our fact sheet ‘Understanding Immunotherapy’

Download our fact sheet ‘Understanding Targeted Therapy’

Avoiding pregnancy during treatment

Some cancer treatments, such as chemotherapy, radiation therapy, immunotherapy or targeted therapy, can harm an unborn baby or cause birth defects. 

During treatment – Even if your periods stop during cancer treatment, you might still be fertile. You will need to use some form of contraception to avoid pregnancy while having treatment. 

After treatment – Your treatment team and fertility specialists may also advise you to wait between 6 months and 2 years before starting fertility treatment or trying to conceive naturally. How long you have to wait will depend on the type of cancer treatment you’ve had. 

Using contraception – Your team may also advise you to use barrier contraception (such as a condom, female condom, dental dam or diaphragm), the pill or hormone implants, or non-hormone-based contraception (IUD) for a short time after each treatment, even if there is no risk of pregnancy. 

Barrier contraception will also protect your partner from any chemotherapy drugs that may be present in your body fluids.

Specific challenges after treatment

If you still have your reproductive organs, you may be able to conceive without medical assistance after cancer treatment. However, many people experience one of the following physical issues.

Acute ovarian dysfunction

While you’re having chemotherapy and radiation therapy, and for some time afterwards, the ovaries often stop producing hormones. This is known as acute ovarian dysfunction. You will have occasional or no periods, and symptoms similar to menopause, before regular periods return. If you have no periods for several years, your ovaries may not work normally again.

Medically induced menopause

Menopause is the end of menstruation (having periods). It usually happens between the ages of 45 and 55. Menopause before the age of 40 is known as premature menopause or premature ovarian insufficiency (POI), and before the age of 45 it is called early menopause. 

A permanent end to your periods may occur immediately or many years after treatment depending on your age, type of treatment and the dose of any drugs you received. If the ovaries are surgically removed or too many eggs are damaged during treatment, menopause is permanent.

While premature menopause means you won’t ovulate, it may be possible to carry a baby if you have a uterus and have not had radiation therapy and use stored eggs or donor eggs. After spontaneous POI there is a small chance (5–10%) of becoming pregnant naturally because a remaining egg may mature and be fertilised by a sperm. The likelihood of getting pregnant after POI caused by cancer treatment is not known. 

Menopause symptoms – Most menopause symptoms are related to a drop in your body’s oestrogen levels and might be more severe when menopause starts suddenly. Common symptoms may include a dry vagina, hot flushes and night sweats, aching joints, changes in mood and difficulty sleeping. 

Menopausal hormone therapy (MHT) – MHT was previously known as hormone replacement therapy or HRT. It may help treat menopause symptoms. MHT replaces the hormones that the ovaries stop making, and can be taken as tablets, creams or skin patches. Taking MHT may increase the risk of some diseases. If you were diagnosed with hormone sensitive cancers such as breast cancer, you are advised not to take MHT, but there are other non-hormonal drugs available that can help. Vaginal moisturisers and lubricants can help with vaginal discomfort and dryness. They are available over the counter from a pharmacy.

Your feelings about menopause 

Menopause affects people in different ways. For some, going through menopause earlier than expected may be upsetting. It may make you feel older than your age and affect your sense of identity. For others, not having to worry about regular periods is a positive. It may take time to adjust to the changes. Talk about how you’re feeling with a family member, friend, counsellor or sex therapist. Some studies show that mindfulness exercises can also help with worries and fear.

Menopause can cause the bones to weaken (osteoporosis) and may increase your risk of heart disease. Talk to your doctor about having a bone density test and what you can do to maintain strong bones and a healthy heart. Doing weight-bearing exercise and eating calcium-rich foods can help keep your bones strong. Visit Healthy Bones Australia or call 1800 242 141 for more information. 

Retrograde ejaculation

In some cases, after some surgeries or treatment, the nerves involved in ejaculation are damaged. During orgasm, semen may go back towards the bladder instead of forward into the penis. This is called retrograde ejaculation. If this happens, you may be given medicine to help the semen move out of the penis as normal. This may make it possible for you to conceive naturally. Your fertility specialist can also collect some ejaculated sperm from the urine, which can be used to fertilise eggs during IVF.

Erection problems

Sometimes surgery damages the nerves that help control erections and causes erectile dysfunction. This is often a temporary problem. The ability to have erections firm enough for penetration can continue to improve for up to 3 years after treatment has finished. Some people may not get strong erections again. There are several medical options you can try. These include prescription medicine and erectile aids, which may make it possible for you to conceive naturally. 

If you are not able to have penetrative sex, you may be able to have testicular sperm extraction to help you conceive.

Female options before cancer treatment

This section outlines ways you can preserve your fertility before starting cancer treatment. 

It’s ideal to discuss the options with your cancer or fertility specialist or oncofertility specialist at this time. Keep in mind that these methods don’t work all of the time.

If you didn’t have an opportunity to discuss your options before starting cancer treatment, you can still consider your fertility later, but there may not be as many options available.

Learn more about the options that may be available below.

Wait and see

What this is

  • no methods are used to try and preserve fertility

When this is used

  • when you don’t have time to consider fertility preservation and choose to start cancer treatment immediately

How this works

  • no action

What to consider

  • more likely to lead to premature ovarian insufficiency

Pregnancy rate

  • depends on age and cancer treatment

Freezing eggs or embryos (cryopreservation)

What this is

  • collecting, developing and freezing eggs or embryos as part of an in-vitro fertilisation (IVF) cycle

When this is used

  • when you want to store eggs or embryos for use in the future, the frozen egg will be fertilised using IVF, or the embryo will be implanted in your uterus

How this works

  • egg and embryo freezing is part of IVF – the most common and successful assisted reproductive technology for preserving female fertility 
  • one cycle of IVF can take 2–3 weeks 
  • egg collection is done in an operating theatre as a day procedure

What to consider

  • you can only freeze eggs or embryos before cancer treatment if you have time – your cancer specialists will advise how quickly cancer treatment should begin 
  • talk with your fertility specialist about whether to freeze eggs, embryos or a mix of both 
  • ask the fertility clinic about the cost of storing eggs and embryos and any legal limits on how long they can be stored (different in each state) 
  • sperm from a partner or donor sperm is needed to create an embryo 
  • to use a frozen embryo, you will need consent from the sperm donor 
  • legal documents outlining instructions if a relationship breaks down are required for male donors with a partner

Pregnancy rate

  • freezing eggs works nearly as well as freezing embryos
  • for every 10 eggs frozen, you can expect to get 1–4 embryos
  • depending on your age, the success rate of the fertility clinic and the stage at which the embryos are stored, there may be a 25–40% chance per cycle of a frozen embryo developing into a pregnancy

Freezing ovarian tissue (cryopreservation)

What this is

  • the process of removing, slicing, freezing and storing tiny pieces of tissue from an ovary so it can be used later

When this is used

  • if treatment needs to start immediately
  • if taking hormones to encourage egg production is unsafe
  • if there is a high risk of infertility
  • if the person hasn’t gone through puberty
  • can be used in addition to egg freezing

How this works

  • tissue is removed from your ovaries during keyhole surgery (laparoscopy); if you have abdominal surgery as part of cancer treatment, tissue can be removed at this time
  • tissue is frozen until it is needed
  • when needed, the tissue is thawed and put back (grafted) into the ovary
  • tissue may produce hormones and eggs may develop

What to consider

  • tissue stored before treatment has a risk of containing cancer cells, and you may not want to put this tissue back into your body; risk is higher for people with leukaemia
  • legal limits on how long ovarian tissue can be stored are different in each state and territory
  • ask your fertility clinic how much you will have to pay for storage

Pregnancy rate

  • there have been a small number of births worldwide from ovarian tissue removed before puberty, and several births from ovarian tissue removed after puberty
  • about 1 in 3 people who have tried to use ovarian tissue to become pregnant have been successful

Ovarian transposition (oophoropexy)

What this is

  • surgery that moves one or both ovaries to prevent damage to the ovaries during radiation therapy

When this is used

  • when one or both ovaries are in the path of radiation therapy
  • limits how much radiation the ovaries receive

How this works

  • one or both ovaries are moved away from the field of radiation and stitched in place
  • put back in place after radiation therapy ends

What to consider

  • procedure may cut off blood supply, causing damage to the ovaries

Pregnancy rate

  • depends on your age, the amount of radiation that reaches the ovaries and whether you start menstruating again

Fertility-sparing surgery (e.g. trachelectomy, unilateral-salpingo oophorectomy)

What this is

  • trachelectomy removes part or all of the cervix and keeps the uterus, fallopian tubes and ovaries in place
  • unilateral-salpingo oophorectomy removes only one ovary

When this is used

  • trachelectomy is for small tumours found only in the cervix
  • unilateral-salpingo oophorectomy is for early-stage cancer found only in one ovary

How this works

  • the uterus is stitched tight with a small opening to allow blood to pass out during a period and for sperm to enter

What to consider

  • risk of miscarriage and premature birth; may have a stitch placed in what remains of the cervix to reduce the risk

Pregnancy rate

  • number of births after this procedure is increasing

GnRH analogue treatment (ovarian suppression)

What this is

  • gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH) analogue is a long-acting hormone that stops the ovaries making oestrogen for a short time
  • may protect eggs from being damaged

When this is used

  • at least 1 week before chemotherapy starts, continuing until chemotherapy finishes

How this works

  • hormone injections given 7–10 days before chemotherapy starts or during the first week of treatment, then every month or every 3 months during chemotherapy

What to consider

  • backup to other fertility preservation options
  • can affect bone density if used for more than 6 months

Pregnancy rate

  • studies show that treatment is suitable for young women with breast cancer but there is no evidence for other types of cancer

Female options after cancer treatment

Fertility options after cancer treatment may be limited. 

Your ability to become pregnant depends on the effects of cancer treatment on fertility, your age and whether you have been affected by premature ovarian insufficiency or early menopause. Options to consider include: 

  • conceiving naturally
  • using eggs or embryos harvested and stored before treatment, implanted into either your body (IVF) or a surrogate
  • freezing eggs or embryos after treatment ends for later use (if your ovaries are still working) 
  • using donor eggs or embryos.
Checking fertility after treatment

Before trying to conceive, you may want to do some tests to see how your fertility has been affected. While there is no reliable way of checking how treatment has affected your fertility, these tests provide your doctors with some information. You can ask them how much the tests will cost.

Blood tests - You may have a variety of blood tests to measure the levels of hormones in your body, including follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH), anti-Mullerian hormone (AMH), oestrogen (oestradiol) and luteinising hormone (LH). For more information on these tests, talk to your doctor or call Cancer Council 13 11 20.

Ultrasound - An ultrasound uses soundwaves to create a picture of the cervix, uterus, fallopian tubes and ovaries. A technician will insert an ultrasound wand, covered with a disposable plastic sheath and gel, into the vagina. This is called a transvaginal ultrasound. During an antral follicle count (AFC), the ultrasound wand is inserted into the vagina to show the number of follicles in the ovaries. Each follicle contains a single immature egg. A scan of the abdomen is an option for younger people.

Natural conception 

You may be able to conceive naturally after finishing cancer treatment if your ovaries are still releasing eggs and you have a uterus. If fertility tests suggest it may be possible for you to get pregnant, your medical team will encourage you to try for a baby naturally. 

Even if your periods return after chemotherapy or pelvic radiation therapy, there is a high risk of early menopause. If menopause is permanent, you will no longer be able to conceive naturally. 

Donor eggs and embryos 

If after cancer treatment you go through menopause but have a healthy uterus, you could try for a pregnancy using eggs or embryos donated by another person. You may be able to use eggs or embryos from overseas, but there are strict rules about importing them into Australia. Donors cannot be paid but you can cover (reimburse) their medical expenses.

Using donor eggs 

In most cases, eggs are donated by a family member or friend. Your fertility clinic may have an egg bank, but there is usually a long waiting list. All donors are required to have blood tests for infectious and genetic screening, answer questions about their genetic and medical information, and have counselling. After the eggs are collected from the donor, they are combined with sperm from your partner or a donor using IVF. 

Using donor embryos 

Donor embryos usually come from people who still have frozen embryos after they’ve had successful IVF treatment. Embryos may be donated for ethical reasons (instead of discarding the embryos) or compassionate reasons (to help someone with infertility). 

If you use a donated embryo, you will have counselling to answer all your questions and plan ahead. It’s also a good idea to seek legal advice before proceeding. When you are ready, you will take hormones to prepare your uterus for pregnancy. When your body is ready, the embryo will be thawed and implanted into your uterus using IVF. 

A child born from a donated embryo is deemed to be the child of the birth mother. Donors have no legal or financial obligation to the child.

Uterus transplant is being studied in clinical trials. Talk to your doctor about the latest research and whether there are any suitable clinical trials for you.

I now understand what they mean by ‘information means control’. Seeking accurate, reliable information was a huge coping strategy for me.

SONYA

Male options before cancer treatment

This section outlines ways you can preserve your fertility before starting cancer treatment. 

It’s ideal to discuss the options with your cancer or fertility specialist as soon as possible.

Sperm banking (freezing or cryopreservation) and radiation shielding are well-established ways to preserve fertility. Surgically extracting sperm from the testicles is another way to store sperm for later use. The best option for you depends on the type of cancer you have and your personal preferences. 

Keep in mind that no method works all the time. Fertility treatments carry risks and your doctor should discuss these with you before you go home. 

If you didn’t have an opportunity to discuss your options before starting cancer treatment, you can still consider your fertility later. Your choices after treatment will depend on whether you are able to produce sperm.

“All my life I had wanted to be a father. I didn’t want cancer to ruin my chances, so I stored my sperm before treatment started. I think of this as a bit of an insurance policy.” ZAC

Learn more about the options that may be available below.

Banking sperm or freezing sperm (cryopreservation)

What this is

  • collecting, freezing and storing sperm
  • this is the standard way of preserving fertility in males

When this is used

  • when you want to store sperm for the future
  • samples can be stored for up to 20 years. depending on the laws of each state and territory

How this works

  • the procedure is performed in hospital or in a sperm bank facility (also called an andrology unit) 
  • samples are collected in a private room where you can masturbate or have a partner stimulate you, and then ejaculate into a jar
  • it’s recommended that you provide 2–3 samples; you may need to visit the clinic more than once to make sure enough semen is collected 
  • sperm is then frozen until needed 
  • when you are ready to have a child, the frozen sperm is thawed and used to fertilise an egg using IVF

What to consider

  • if you collect semen at home, you must keep the sample close to body temperature and get it to the sperm bank facility within an hour 
  • if you want to collect semen during sex, you must use a special condom from the sperm bank facility
  • if you are unable to ejaculate, there are medical ways to encourage ejaculation 
  • if you are unable to produce a sample of semen, sperm may be collected using testicular sperm extraction
  • you may feel nervous and embarrassed going to a sperm bank, or worry whether you will be able to ejaculate; the medical staff are used to these situations; you can also bring someone with you

Radiation shielding

What this is

  • protecting the testicles from external beam radiation therapy with a shield

When this is used

  • if the testicles are close to where radiation beams are directed (but are not the target of the radiation), they can be protected from the radiation beams

How this works

  • protective lead coverings called shields are used

What to consider

  • this technique does not guarantee that radiation will not affect the testicles, but it does provide some level of protection

Testicular sperm extraction (TESE)

What this is

  • a way of looking for sperm inside the testicular tissue
  • also called surgical sperm retrieval

When this is used

  • when you can’t ejaculate
  • when there is not enough sperm in the semen sample
  • to collect sperm from men with retrograde ejaculation

How this works

  • under anaesthetic, a fine needle is inserted into the epididymis or testicle to find and extract sperm; this is called testicular aspiration
  • if no sperm is found, your specialist may do an open biopsy to retrieve a larger tissue sample
  • collected sperm is frozen and can later be used to fertilise eggs during IVF

What to consider

  • in rare cases, no sperm is found in the testicular tissue

Male options after cancer treatment

It’s a good idea to see a fertility specialist about 6–12 months after cancer treatment for review. 

This is important to check your hormones, as well as to check future fertility. While there is currently no reliable way of checking how treatment has affected your fertility, these tests provide your fertility specialist or reproductive endocrinologist with some information. 

Depending on the results of these tests, your options include: 

  • conceiving naturally
  • intrauterine insemination or IUI, or IVF, using your own sperm frozen before treatment or fresh sperm collected after treatment
  • testicular sperm extraction, if you can’t ejaculate normally or there is no sperm in the semen
  • banking sperm after treatment ends, if you are still fertile 
  • using donor sperm.
Checking fertility after treatment 

After treatment, you may be able to have an erection and ejaculate, but this doesn’t necessarily mean you are fertile. If treatment has permanently affected your ability to produce sperm and have erections, you will no longer be able to conceive naturally. Before trying to conceive, you may want to do some tests to see how your fertility has been affected. These tests include a semen analysis (sperm count) and blood tests that measure levels of testosterone, follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) and luteinising hormone (LH). These can be arranged by your fertility specialist or reproductive endocrinologist. The results will help the specialist recommend the best options for having a child after cancer treatment. 

Natural conception 

You may be able to get your partner pregnant naturally after finishing cancer treatment. This will only be possible if your semen production returns to normal and you are making healthy, active sperm. As fertility declines with age, it will also depend on the age of you and your partner. Your medical team will do tests both to check your general health and assess your fertility. Depending on the treatment you’ve had, they may advise you to wait 6 months to 2 years before trying to conceive. Discuss the timing and contraception options with your specialist.

Intrauterine insemination (IUI) 

Also called artificial insemination, this technique places the sperm directly into the uterus. IUI increases the chance that the sperm will fertilise an egg. The sperm may be fresh or it may have been frozen. The sample is washed and faster-moving sperm are separated from slower sperm. Insemination is usually done in a fertility clinic. Once your partner is ovulating, the sperm are inserted into their uterus using a small, soft tube (catheter). This takes only a few minutes and may cause some mild discomfort to your partner. You should know in a few weeks whether pregnancy has occurred. 

In-vitro fertilisation (IVF) 

IVF uses either sperm collected and frozen before treatment, or fresh sperm to fertilise an egg outside of the body. Intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI) is a specialised type of IVF in which a single, good quality sperm is injected into an egg. 

Donor sperm 

If you are infertile after cancer treatment, you could consider using donor sperm. In most cases, sperm are donated by a family member or friend. Your fertility clinic may have access to donor sperm, but there is usually a waiting list. You may be able to advertise for your own donor. It’s possible to use sperm from overseas, but there are strict rules about importing donor sperm into Australia. 

Sperm donors have voluntarily contributed sperm to a fertility clinic. They are not paid for their donation, but you can cover (reimburse) their travel or medical expenses. 

All donors are required to: 

  • have blood tests for infectious diseases and screening for genetic conditions 
  • answer questions about their genetic and medical information 
  • have counselling. 

Personal information is also collected, including details about ethnicity, education, hobbies, skills and occupation. Donors are usually between 21 and 45 years old. Sperm samples are screened for genetic diseases or abnormalities, sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and overall quality, then quarantined for several months. Before the sperm are cleared for use, the donor is checked again for infectious diseases.

When the sperm are ready to be used, insemination is usually done in a fertility clinic. The sample is thawed to room temperature and inserted directly into the uterus using IUI or combined with an egg using IVF. Identifying information about donors is available to donor-conceived people once they turn 18.

Finding information about the donor

In Australia, fertility clinics can only use eggs, sperm and embryos from donors who agree (consent) that people born from their donation can find out who they are. This means that the donor’s name, address and date of birth are recorded. 

People who opt to use donor sperm, must undergo a discussion with a fertility counsellor about how they will approach this topic with their donor-conceived children. 

Once donor-conceived people turn 18, they are allowed to access identifying information about the donor. In some states, a central register is used to record details about donors and their donor conceived offspring. 

In states with a central register, parents of donor-conceived children, and donor-conceived people who are over the age of 18 can apply for information about the donor through the register. In states and territories where there is no central register, people who want information about their donor can ask the clinic where the fertility treatment took place. 

It is important to discuss possible issues for donor-conceived children with a fertility counsellor.

Fertility in children and adolescents

When a child or adolescent is diagnosed with cancer, the focus is often on survival, so health professionals and families may not always think about fertility. 

Many young people say that fertility is important to them. 

Some cancer treatments do not affect a child’s reproductive system, while others can damage the ovaries or the testicles. Sometimes this damage is temporary, but sometimes it’s permanent. 

In many cases, decisions about fertility preservation are made before treatment begins. Often the decision involves specialists, the young person and their parents or carers. Parents of children under 18 will usually need to consent to any fertility preservation procedures. 

During and after treatment for cancer, young people continue living life as normally as possible, which may include going on dates and having a partner. They may feel confused about how much to share with others about having cancer and the impact on their fertility. The organisation Canteen supports young people aged 12–25 who have been affected by cancer. It offers counselling and also runs online forums and camps. To get in touch, visit Canteen or call 1800 945 215.

The Royal Women’s Hospital in Victoria allows young people to have their ovarian or testicular tissue harvested by their own fertility specialist and then transported and stored at the national cryobank at the hospital.

Other ways to be a parent

Giving birth yourself or having your partner become pregnant aren’t the only ways to become a parent. 

This section talks about other paths to parenthood you may want to consider, including surrogacy, adoption and fostering.

Surrogacy

Surrogacy may be an option if you are unable or do not wish to carry a pregnancy. For example, you may choose a surrogate to carry your embryo if you do not have a uterus or you have been advised that it is medically too risky to carry a pregnancy. 

In Australia, a surrogate is a healthy female who carries a donated embryo to term. The surrogate cannot use her own eggs. Either you or a donor provides the egg and sperm to create an embryo. 

This embryo is implanted into the uterus of the surrogate through IVF. It’s common for people to ask someone they know to be the surrogate. You can cover the surrogate’s medical costs and other reasonable expenses. In Australia, it is illegal to advertise for a surrogate or pay a person to be a surrogate. Paid surrogacy is legal in some countries. However, in some Australian states and territories it is a criminal offence for residents to enter into commercial surrogacy arrangements overseas – you will need to check that it is legal in your state or territory. 

It is also important to seek independent legal advice about parentage, citizenship and any conditions you and the surrogate have to meet. To find out more about international surrogacy, visit smartraveller.gov.au

Surrogacy is a complex process. The fertility clinic organising it ensures that both the donor and surrogate go through counselling and psychological testing before the process begins. An ethics committee may also have to approve your case. This ensures that everyone involved makes a well-informed decision.

This is general information about surrogacy. Laws regulating surrogacy vary across Australia and may change. Check with your local fertility clinic or legal adviser for the current legislation in your state or territory. It’s best to consult a lawyer before making a surrogacy arrangement. Further information can be found at Surrogacy in Australia.

Adoption and fostering

Adoption involves becoming the legal parent of a child who is not biologically yours and looking after them permanently. Although the number of adoptions in Australia each year is low, you may be able to adopt a child within Australia or from an overseas country. 

Fostering (foster care) means taking responsibility for a child without becoming the legal parent. Types of foster care include emergency, respite, short-term and long-term care. In Australia, there are more opportunities to foster than to adopt. 

Most adoption and fostering agencies say they do not rule out adoption or fostering for cancer survivors based on their medical history alone. However, all applicants must declare their health status. The agency may also speak directly with your doctor and require you to have a medical examination. The intention is to determine the risk of the cancer returning and your capacity to raise a child. 

Applicants for adoption and fostering must also be willing to meet other criteria. The agency from your state or territory may send a representative to assess your home, and you will have a criminal record (background) check. The process depends on where you live and if the child is from Australia or overseas.

For more information about adoption and foster care, visit the family and community service government website in your state or territory. Intercountry Adoption Australia is an information and referral service to help guide people through the overseas adoption process. For details, visit intercountryadoption.gov.au.

I was treated for cancer about 50 years ago when I was a toddler, and the radiation therapy damaged my ovaries. After I married, I tried fertility drugs but didn’t have a viable pregnancy. We then applied for adoption. After a 5-year wait, we received my daughter at 7 weeks old. She was my baby from the minute I laid eyes on her.

SYLVIA

Not having a child

If you have not been able to preserve your fertility, or even if you have, you may come to accept that you won’t have a child, or more children. 

You might feel like you ran out of time, money or energy to keep trying to have a child. Not being able to have a child after cancer treatment may cause a range of emotions, including: 

  • sadness or emptiness 
  • a sense of grief or loss for the life you thought you would have 
  • anger that cancer and its treatment caused changes to your body 
  • relief, contentment or happiness 
  • empowerment, if you chose not to have children.

It can take time to accept that you won’t have a child and learn to enjoy the benefits of being child-free – more time to follow other aspects of your life, focus on your relationships, advance your career or afford a different lifestyle. Many people have happy and fulfilling lives without children or gain satisfaction from other types of nurturing. 

How you feel about having a child may change over time. It may depend on if you have a partner and how they feel. If you want support, you can talk to a counsellor, social worker or psychologist. They can also help you deal with challenging situations (e.g. if your partner feels differently to you).

I learnt that you can live a fulfilled life without children.

DUNCAN

Emotional impact

How people respond to infertility varies. 

Common reactions include shock, grief, anger or depression from the disruption of life plans, uncertainty about the future, loss of control over life direction, and worry about the potential effects of early menopause (such as reduced bone density). 

The physical and emotional process of infertility treatment, and not knowing if it will work, can be exhausting. People who didn’t get a chance to think about their fertility until treatment was over say that the emotions can be especially strong.

While these feelings are a natural reaction to loss of fertility, see below for ways to manage these feelings before they overwhelm you. It may also help to consider other ways of becoming a parent or you may decide to stop trying to have a child.

Coping strategies

Learning that cancer treatment has affected your ability to have children can be challenging. There is no right or wrong way of coping. The strategies described here may help you feel a greater sense of control and confidence.

Gather information – The impact of cancer on your fertility may change your plans or make them unpredictable. Knowing your options for building a family may help you deal with feelings of uncertainty.

Get support from others – Talking to people who have been in a similar situation or to family and friends can reduce feelings of isolation and help you cope. Consider joining a support group for people with cancer or fertility-related issues.

Consider professional counselling – You can talk to a counsellor about the impact of infertility. Most fertility units have a fertility counsellor or you can visit the Fertility Society of Australia and New Zealand for more information.

Get creative – If you don’t want to talk about how you are feeling, you could keep a journal or blog, or you could make music, draw, paint or craft. You can share your writing or artworks with those close to you or keep them private.

Try relaxation and meditation exercises – Both of these techniques can help reduce stress and anxiety. Exercise such as walking can also help with mood changes and energy levels.

Relationships and your sex life

A cancer diagnosis, treatment side effects and living with the uncertainty of infertility may affect how you feel about yourself, your relationships and your sense of who you are and how you see yourself. 

Whether or not you have a partner, it’s a good idea to find out your fertility status as soon as you feel ready. This way, you can think about what you want, and if you have a partner, start talking with them about what the future may hold.

Communicating with your partner 

A cancer diagnosis, infertility and changes to your sex life can cause tension in a relationship. Some partners are very supportive, while others avoid talking about it. If your partner is unwilling to talk about fertility, you might feel like you’re coping alone or making all the decisions. It can also be challenging if you and your partner disagree about what to do and focus on different outcomes. 

Your partner will also experience a range of emotions, which may include helplessness, frustration, fear, anger and sadness. Seeing a fertility counsellor can help you talk about these issues and develop strategies to manage conflict. 

Communicating with a new partner 

If you are in a new relationship, you may be worried about your partner’s reaction to your diagnosis or to explaining any fertility concerns. Start the conversation when you feel ready. It may be easier if you practise what you want to say – and how you would respond to questions your partner may ask – with a friend, family member or health professional. 

Sex and intimacy 

Sexuality is about who you are, how you see yourself, how you express yourself sexually and your sexual feelings for others. Being able to conceive a child may be part of your identity, and infertility may change how you feel about yourself. You may feel that sex is linked with the stress of infertility, and you may lose interest in intimacy and sex (low libido). 

Body image – Fertility concerns may affect how you feel about your body (body image). You may feel that your body has “let you down”. It will take time to accept any physical and emotional changes. It may be helpful to: 

  • look after your body with exercise, eating well and sleep 
  • spend time with a partner doing something you both enjoy. 

Resuming sexual activity after cancer treatment – Some cancer treatments may cause physical problems, such as pain during penetrative sex or trouble getting and keeping an erection. 

These problems may be difficult for you and your partner, if you have one, but can be managed in various ways: 

  • think about what used to get you sexually aroused and explore if it still does 
  • explore different erogenous zones, mutual masturbation, oral sex, personal lubricants, sex toys, erotic images and stories
  • focus on getting in the mood and making foreplay enjoyable to take the pressure off getting pregnant 
  • talk to each other about how fertility concerns are affecting you and discuss ways you can keep enjoying sex (e.g. “I just want to cuddle now” or “That feels good”). 

If you need further support, talk to a counsellor or sex therapist. Your doctor can refer you to one or you can call Cancer Council 13 11 20.

This information was last reviewed October 2025 by the following panel:

Dr Sally Reid, Gynaecologist and Fertility Specialist, Obstetrics and Gynaecology (Adelaide) and Royal Adelaide Hospital, SA; Dr Sarah Ellis, Clinical Psychologist and Postdoctoral Research Fellow, Kids Cancer Centre, Sydney Children’s Hospital and UNSW, NSW; John Booth, Consumer; Hope Finlen, Haematology Nurse Consultant, Gold Coast University Hospital, QLD; Dr Michelle Harrison, Medical Oncologist – Gynaecological cancers, Chris O’Brien Lifehouse, NSW; Melissa Jones, Nurse Consultant, Youth Cancer Service SA/NT, Royal Adelaide Hospital, SA; Dr Violet Kieu, Clinical Director, Melbourne IVF and Fertility Specialist, The Royal Women’s Hospital, VIC; Prof Declan Murphy, Consultant Urologist, Director – Genitourinary Oncology, Peter MacCallum Cancer Centre and The University of Melbourne, VIC; Stephen Page, Family and Fertility Lawyer, and Legal Practice Director, Page Provan, QLD; Ann Retzlaff, 13 11 20 Consultant, Cancer Council WA; A/Prof Kate Stern AO, Fertility specialist, Gynaecologist and Reproductive Endocrinologist, Royal Women’s Hospital and Melbourne IVF, VIC; Georgia Webster, Consumer.